Talking To Your Crush When You Have Anxiety Ft. Charliemotionless
Talking To Your Crush When You Have Anxiety Ft. Charliemotionless
Tips and tricks on how to start a conversation with your crush when you are suffering with anxiety!
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looking to your crush can be really scary when you have anxiety it is really awkward sometimes I’m gonna give you some tips on how to talk to your crush if you’ve got anxiety so shall we do this okay so the first thing you may do when you have anxiety is sometimes you may get really panicky and you forget everything you’re going to say this happens to me all the time I like literally have a breakdown because I’m overthinking too much I just have a mind blank what I like to do is write on my arm we’ve like a pen or a liquid eyeliner or something a load of conversation size and I think I’m like the only person in the world that does this comment below if you do this as well but literally what I do is I get a pen or something and write on my arm not my hand because you can see it when I have like long like titties or things on people won’t see it what I do is like write conversation starters for example I would like right how are you doing oh I really like that top or something really kind of thing and to start conversation and because when I get panicky I overthink things and then I can’t remember what I’m talking about so what I like to do is write things down on my arm so I can just look at it discreetly without people knowing obviously but like look at it and see like oh right say that and I don’t have a mind blank so that’s cool I guess if you are really really scared of talking to your crush you may want to be friends with them beforehand this would help a lot like a lot because it would be really odd if you just go up to them and start speaking to them because you’re not friends with them you need to be in a good situation where you can actually talk to them what is the most complicated and hardest thing in the world when you have anxiety I know I’ve been there but we’ll try and complete this by trying to start a conversation with them without being really really fun so for example well I did the other day I was real good this guy that I kind of liked it really got good and got to go and get some paper and I decided a few seconds after I would go up as well oh god this is so good what I did was I went me and he saw that I was there and I went where is the paper I was like do you know where the paper is because I cannot find it anywhere and then he was like oh yeah I can I can help you with that and then follow that and that’s how I start the conversation and try and do things like that I know it’s really really scary so what you need to do guys you need to relax and become because if you’re not relaxed and you’re not calm people are going to see it sometimes it might make you really unapproachable I dunno why it is but like when I’m sad and like look really full of anxiety people won’t talk to me so try and be as calm and relaxed as possible in that situation because you’ll seem a lot more confident in yourself and it will look like you know exactly what you’re doing being sociable and stuff so that’s a good tip right there okay so some other tips is once you’ve actually got into this friendship thing going on right and not limit yourself don’t limit yourself to what you’re going to say sometimes I feel like I limit myself a lot and because I’m scared what they’re gonna think of me if they’re a good friend and they seem a good person they should respect you on that what you need to do is try not to limit yourself too much but don’t do too much away that’s kind of cool another thing you need to have good conversation skills and I’m like oh my god go to me now because I have no conversation skills are two things I’ve learned this year is to smile if you smile you’re more approachable to that person for example if I smile at some time they whack you come over talk to me it’s really weird but that’s how I start making friends just by smiling at them not creepily don’t smile creepy at them just like do a little smile and you’re you should be fine they don’t think you’re really approachable and confident so if you smile that is also a really good way of trying to talk to them another thing is using eye contact and this is one thing I’ve actually gained for is keeping eye contact with the camera lens and it’s really weird last year my sister said that I was really awkward because I never used to make eye contact I used to always look at their nose I apparently Illig really odd so boy do is the news I contact but don’t stare at them punch them me always look away every few seconds because you don’t want to be just staring gazing into their eyes constantly when you’re speaking to them so what I’ve learned for u. Ship is actually keeping eye contact and knowing when to look away and stuff don’t try and do I contact because it will make you seem more approachable confident and cooler I guess and people like to look into your eyes so that you’re engaged kind of thing the last thing I want to talk about is if you are really really scared to talk to them face to face this is me message to them on Facebook I know this is kind of a get out kind of thing but actually this is how I’ve met loads of people that I know it’s for a Facebook yeh literally talk to them on Facebook add them on Facebook and then ask them a question Facebook like do you know what this homework is can you help me blah blah blah or something like that start conversation that way doesn’t mean you have to talk to them in class but you’re talking to them on Facebook so then you kind of get them to know them that way and then sometimes they will come up to you and start talking face to face that is another way use Facebook as an advantage to talk to people feels like and stuff and that is literally it I just like to say thank you to Kristen for let me collab with her on her channel because it’s really cool and it made me really happy when she messaged me saying do you on a class because it was so cool and amazing Thank You Kristen so much and give the video like for her yeah I’m Charlie and I’ll see you guys later if you are subscribed to my channel so yeah you..