Introvert Vs. Shy

Introvert Vs. Shy

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hi my name’s Toria and I’m an introvert welcome to my channel I know shocking someone who spends the majority of their time at home on the Internet is an introvert well I never I’m guessing we’ve all heard of the whole introvert extrovert thing but if somehow you’ve been living under a very heavy rock and missed it here’s a quick summary someone who likes to be around a lot of people and have a lot of friends generally very outgoing and sociable recharges their batteries from social interaction someone who prefers solitude or spending time with just one or two friends prefers to spend time alone at home rather than around a lot of people recharge their batteries doing exactly that being alone both are great both are totally okay to be but I have found that a lot of people mistake introversion for shyness hashtag introvert problems look I caught on to a trend not that there’s anything wrong with being shy of course shy people you do your thing now I’m going to generalize extensively here so don’t take what I say is unequivocal truth but here’s what I would describe as the difference between someone who’s introverted but not necessarily shy and someone who’s shy but not necessarily introverted hi oh person I did not want to see a person today get the better be nice time to initiate social interaction mode Hey No oh crap it’s a person oh no I didn’t think I’d meet anyone need today didn’t what do I say to a person what’s what okay hang on one is normal meeting new person etiquette here hey see it’s all in the body language and the awkward expression okay so I kinda didn’t actually show you the difference between the two externally um but I guess it was maybe a nice little generalized sort of explanation of the difference between the two here’s another because that last one wasn’t very good shy people find interacting with others awkward introverts find interacting with other people tiring introverts are okay we’re going onstage in front of hundreds of people and looking at you actors shy people not so much I know too many introverts who are called shy as a kid and resent it to this day equally I know a bunch of shy people who are actually kind of the life of the party my advice would be to never assume that one or the other is either thing because that is a very fast way to piss off a lot of people who will never tell you about it they either don’t know how or don’t want to silent grudges are everywhere I’m looking at you adults that I briefly met as a child and never saw again in other news I started a patreon page you know that’s like that content creators use to kindly ask for donations or tips or whatever you want to call them to help them continue to make content because they like doing it and they want to keep doing it why have I started a patreon page well the logic was that for reason and because I have a dream it is a big dream eventually becoming a full time r that’s what I would love to do and I think with your help eventually it might be achievable and in the meantime and it just helped me make better videos for you also it’s a great way to get you guys more involved there’s a bunch of rewards from live chats to behind the scenes content to voting on video ideas plus the more love that some there the more videos I can make overall so whether you can spare a dollar to help keep these videos coming and hopefully more in the future or if not and you just want to help out please check out my patreon page read my story on there watch the video check out the rewards and if you can help out and donate amazing thank you it’s not don’t worry about it either way I would really appreciate it if you would help share my videos share page and just spread the love thanks for being awesome I hope you liked the video if you did please like comment subscribe all that is stuff and I will see you next week hey so I got a bigger bowl because that was totally gonna foam over and it’s coming to gone like you know that marshmallow spread stuff like fluff I think it’s called kind of like that..

Rather than the usual shyness advice I want to make sure you learn from people who have really gone through it. Like struggled with social anxiety for decade and come out on the other side level of gone through it. If this is your first visit to Social Professor make sure you check out the shy to social page and grab the free audiobook ‘how to talk to anyone’ which is going to turn your life around.

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  1. I am shy and introvert. But I also kinda like to be around people. I just don’t know how to do small talk or anything.

  2. I’m like a combination of everything because I like to be sociable and have a lot of friends, though it’s tiring for me and I recharge myself by being alone. I’m also fairly shy but at the same time I’m confident enough to talk to really anyone.

  3. It drives me crazy when people describe me as shy.
    I’m really not, I simply generally don’t want to speak to people and I genuinely prefer to be alone.

  4. I’m a shy introvert who can be talkative if the people around me like me or I know them more. But meeting people or going to parties or phone calls are my nightmare. Small talk with one persons who I barely know is the death of me.

  5. I’m both. Being shy makes life hard. Being shy and an introvert makes people think you’re a sociopathic hermit. In other words, life’s great.

  6. I’m both. My social life it’s a roller coster emotionally speakin. “Oh oh, new persons, how am I supposed to talk to new persons? Small talk? Are they even gonna like me?” “Oh okay, I actually like them, they’re nice, I wanna be really close friends with them” “Buuut I don’t wanna go out the saturday. Actually, I’m ready to go home now, to read and watch movies and not interact with anyone else for a couple of days” “I wonder why I’m not close with anyone who would like to come and see a marathon with me?…” And so on.

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