How To Overcome Shyness – 8 Sources – Overcome Shyness Know Source 1

How To Overcome Shyness – 8 Sources – Overcome Shyness Know Source 1

In this video, How to Overcome Shyness – 8 Sources -1 we’ll take a look at one of the most common sources of shyness. I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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1 Video 1. An Introduction

2 Source #1 Previous Environment

3 Source #2 Perceived Personality Limitation

4 Source #3 Poor Previous Performance

5 Source #4 Lack of Situational Knowledge

6 Source #5 Lack of Situational Preparation

7 Source #6 Lack of Perceived Personal Value or Input

8 Source #7 Preoccupation With the Judgement of Others

9 Source #8 Would Rather Remain In the Shy Zone

The text:

hi this is Michael Williams and we’re going to be looking at eight reasons why we’re shy how do you overcome shyness well one of the first things that we have to do is look at the source or the sources of our shine so in this series that I have eight videos and they’ll be relatively short we’re going to be looking at eight reasons a common reasons why people are shot no I may not cover the reason why you are some of that you know is shy and I encourage you to share that in the comments however we’re going to be looking at eight common reasons and these reasons are not in any hierarchy or any priority but we are going to start out with this one and the first reason that I wants to look at is this when someone is raised in an environment where they’re discouraged from taking risks or chances they may grow up being shot make sense so if a person is raised in an environment where they’re discouraged from taking risks or chances they may become shy and when I talk about risks or chance i’m not talking about crazy things things that haven’t been thought out things with the repercussions have been thought out now for some people something that’s crazy maybe very sane to another jumping out of an airplane climbing a mountain may be very sane to one person and crazy to another we’re not necessarily talking about that we’re talking about when someone does something they haven’t thought through the repercussions of it right so what is it that perhaps has happened in your environment well who is it in your upbringing who may have discouraged you from stepping out from trying new things from taking advantage of opportunities it could have been a parent could have been a teacher could have been friends it could have been perhaps our response to our circumstances will talk about that it could have been relationships that we had a previous partner spouse has a boyfriend girlfriend whatever alright so when we are raised right on we grow up or we live even in an environment and listen to this we live in an environment where we’re discouraged from taking risks chances or taking advantage of opportunities we can become shy we can live in a state of shyness we can have a sense of shyness what we’re really talking about talking about having a sense of low sense of self confidence right going up fraid of things afraid of doing this afraid of talking people afraid of going out leading people afraid of doing this or doing that so one of one of the reasons one of the sources of our shines could be our upbringing our previous environment does that make sense understanding this then what I’d like the challenge you to do is to take a look at that and say hi is this one of my sources of sinus things that have happened to me in the past now I’m asking you to do anything about it just take a look at it survey and say huh maybe it’s because of previous relationships just because of my parents or maybe it’s because of something else that I’m not willing to take the kinds of Chan without have the kind of confidence that I need alright so in the next video we’re going to look at a second reason or second source for our shyness thank you very much for joining me i look forward to seeing in the next video this is Michael Williams..

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