How Can A Shy Person Take The Initiative In A Conversation?

How Can A Shy Person Take The Initiative In A Conversation?

How Can A Shy Person Take The Initiative In A Conversation?

Answers from: Loy Machedo Leonard McWilliams Amer Khwaja Leonard McWilliams

By forcing themselves to do it. The more you do it, the easier it becomes. This is how I overcame my shyness, it was gradual and took a long time but now it has been years since I was shy and I am much better off. Nothing will happen, you say hi and talk to the people. If you do say the wrong thing you can correct it by saying I am sorry, what I meant was… or sorry I didnt mean it that way, I intended to say ….

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if you struggle with shyness or social anxiety check out our free no BS training course with actual useful advice you can do from home none of that just get out there nonsense the link is in the description below for now let’s get to today’s question when I was 15 years old and saw Jan cloth and Amma doing at all his karate kicks and acrobatic moves and beating the bad guys Arnold Schwarzenegger killing all the bad guys with his well oiled muscles and Sylvester Stallone beating all the baddies I too wanted to be big strong and muscular however I was super skinny so one day when I was told by a guy in my class that their secret was that they did push ups immediately as soon as I went home I attempted to do 100 of the planned push ups I knew I would do unfortunately I wasn’t even able to do half a push up I couldn’t even hold my scrawny body in a plank position I tried and I tried and I tried I couldn’t even manage one single push up but I wasn’t ready to give up so after trying for days and days and days much to the humor and amusement of my parents I managed to do one one single push up however that push up I managed to achieve by bending my hips down and using my hips to push myself up with my arms hardly doing any up and down movement over the years from my attempt at half push up I was able to do one proper push up from there I went up to three push ups every day then came ten per day then thirty and finally I was doing around 75 push ups every single day and that in turn lead me to become from a 55 kilogram skinny youngster to nearly a 125 kilograms the power lifter I have done over 10,000 push ups to reach that point but did I not done that first pushup nothing would have worked the reason I share this story with you is to tell you everything or anything you want to achieve in life starts with one single step one small tiny step done consistently every single day so if you want to achieve the status of being an expert conversation a story gregarious personality from where you are right now a shy person it is all about taking that first step towards change the first small tiny step so even if your step is wrong or not perfect still take it and the more steps you will take over the period of time you will get better and better and one fine day you will become a master at it so now what is the first step it starts with meeting someone and saying hello try this and then leave it to the situation to see what follows next after around 10 and hellos I am pretty sure you will know what to say next easily Laurie maketo when I was 15 years old and saw Jan cloth and Amma doing at all his karate kicks and acrobatic moves and beating the bad guys Arnold Schwarzenegger killing all the bad guys with his well oiled muscles and Sylvester Stallone beating all the baddies I too wanted to be big strong and muscular however I was super skinny so one day when I was told by a guy in my class that their secret was that they did push ups immediately as soon as I went home I attempted to do 100 of the planned push ups I knew I would do unfortunately I wasn’t even able to do half a push up I couldn’t even hold my scrawny body in a plank position I tried and I tried and I tried I couldn’t even manage one single push up but I wasn’t ready to give up so after trying for days and days and days much to the humor and amusement of my parents I managed to do one one single push up however that push up I managed to achieve by bending my hips down and using my hips to push myself up with my arms hardly doing any up and down movement over the years from my attempt at half push up I was able to do one proper push up from there I went up to three push ups every day then came ten per day then thirty and finally I was doing around 75 push ups every single day and that in turn lead me to become from a 55 kilogram skinny youngster to nearly a 125 kilograms powerlifter I have done over 10,000 push ups to reach that point but did I not done that first push up nothing would have worked the reason I share this story with you is to tell you everything or anything you want to achieve in life starts with one single step one small tiny step done consistently every single day so if you want to achieve the status of being an expert conversation a story gregarious personality from where you are right now a shy person it is all about taking that first step towards change the first small tiny step so even if your step is wrong or not perfect still take it and the more steps you will take over the period of time you will get better and better and one fine day you will become a master at it so now what is the first step it starts with meeting someone and saying hello try this and then leave it to the situation to see what follows next after around 10 and hellos I am pretty sure you will know what to say next easily Laurie maketo by forcing themselves to do it the more you do it the easier it becomes this is how I overcame my shyness it was gradual and took a long time but now it has been years since I was shy and I am much better off nothing will happen you say hi and talk to the people if you do say the wrong thing you can correct it by saying I am sorry what I meant was or sorry I didn’t mean it that way I intended to say by forcing themselves to do it the more you do it the easier it becomes this is how I overcame my shyness it was gradual and took a long time but now it has been years since I was shy and I am much better off nothing will happen you say hi and talk to the people if you do say the wrong thing you can correct it by saying I am sorry what I meant was or sorry I didn’t mean it that way I intended to say..

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