From Introvert To Extrovert – Social Skills Basics (+ Your Assignment For This Week!)

From Introvert To Extrovert – Social Skills Basics (+ Your Assignment For This Week!)

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hey what’s up guys so just like I mentioned in another video what we’re going to be doing is taking certain topics and breaking them down into a series that way I don’t spend a hundred hours talking about all the things in one video that you’re probably not going to finish we’ll start with just a little bit of information and break it up so that it doesn’t go in one ear and out the other in today’s topic we’re talking about developing social skills I think in the most recent weeks this has been one of the most sought after topics talked about so instead of giving you a tool that’s going to help you be more social and help you learn how to deal in certain social situations that’s a tongue twister certain social situations I’m going to give you an assignment so that assignment is going to first let me give you the backstory so if you haven’t seen this video here where I talked about how I manifested $100,000 in the year 2016 in that video I talked about my friend Bob Bob who read my birth chart told me that I wouldn’t amount to anything financially and he also told me another thing one of the other things that he told me was that I would be successful with women so when he said that I’m like oh yeah I’m gonna be successful women all right okay but five years later down the road nothing happened I mean I had no girlfriend I was lonely I barely had been with anyone I mean it was just a very very lonely period of my life and so I finally called Bob I’m like yo Bob what the hell bro you told me that I’m gonna be successful with women where they at you know where the women at and Bob you know he sat there and he told me exactly what I needed to hear how many women per day are you actually approaching hmm you know what Bob you see the answer was zero so my reality was nothing more than a result of my lack of action taking that’s all it was and that literally slapped me across the face I was like wow I’ve approached no good like how on earth am I supposed to date women if I’m not talking to I was taking a reactionary approach to it waiting for the girls to come to me and how often is that very not often not often whatsoever so then Bob told me okay there you have it Seth do you need to approach three girls per day and I’m like hmm you’re right I just need to do it so that very day I approach three and then out of three I got two different phone numbers who would have thought that all I had to do was take an action to receive a result I mean that’s it I mean haven’t we heard this before I think it’s called the law of cause and effect where you reap what you sow I so no seeds there for how could anything have grown in the soil same with you guys that is where this assignment is going so this is not about approaching women this is you approaching strangers on the street and we’re not even going to focus on approaching all we’re going to focus on is very small it’s saying hi that’s it all you’re going to do from the next seven days is say hi to five people a day on the street and that’s it literally as they are walking towards you you look them in the eyes you put your hand up say hi well if you don’t want to put your hand up don’t do it but the thing is you want to put yourself out there a little bit more because if you just keep your hands down and say hi you’re probably not going to do the full exercise so just do this hey and that’s it we’re starting this way because like I said in other videos I cannot teach you how to be confident I cannot teach you how to not be shy you are the only one who can teach you that and you do that by repeatedly exposing yourself to those situations that you are most afraid of all the other videos that I’m going to make about being personable being social they’re not going to mean anything if you don’t learn how to start just getting out of your comfort zone and saying hi to people that walk by that’s just a very very basic start of it so that is your assignment say hi to five people per day walking by the street don’t do anything extravagant just say hi and comment in the comment section below letting myself and letting everyone else know what you’re learning what you’re experiencing and you’ll probably find out that it’s actually not as scary as you might think you just got to start exposing yourself to it a little bit more so please follow this instruction take this first step and we will address more social skills stuff in the future hopefully video helps and I hope it pushes you to become more social today peace..

Rather than the usual shyness advice I want to make sure you learn from people who have really gone through it. Like struggled with social anxiety for decade and come out on the other side level of gone through it. If this is your first visit to Social Professor make sure you check out the shy to social page and grab the free audiobook ‘how to talk to anyone’ which is going to turn your life around.

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  1. Great video though man.
    I’ve been spending a lot of time watching Charisma On Command (I expect you know the channel) and this stuff has been on my mind a lot. Regardless of whether you are an introvert or extrovert, being good socially is paramount to success in this World.

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